Because want to eat boiled corn, a
person slowly went to the supermarket. On the road through the park, to
see a lot of people in the kite-flying, could not help but stop the
footsteps, turn into the park.
There
are a lot of people selling kites and kites in the park, of course,
selling flowers, selling lanterns, selling calligraphy and painting,
selling candied fruit and various snacks ... people coming and going,
Here, in order to appreciate the taste of a little year, feel the breath
of some spring.
Park
selling goldfish stalls more than a few, I read one by one, I suddenly
remembered the family added a pot of wealth and bamboo, just in that
transparent bottle, raising two small goldfish.
I
mention the goldfish to go when the boss recommended to me fish food, I
then think of this goldfish, but also to eat. Think of the goldfish
raised before, one by one because of eating and died in non-life, it is
some regret, but the goldfish have paid the money, I can only hold.
To
the supermarket to buy a boiled corn, go home all the way to go. When I
passed the river, I released the goldfish into the river. At home, two
daughters are playing computer, see me, my daughter asked:
"Mom, how come you're so late?"
"I bought two small goldfish, get the river to release.
Goldfish can not be released, they are artificially trained ornamental fish, to the natural river, is certain death!
"Sensational!"
I do not believe, sit on the computer before the Internet query. Really
as the daughter said, goldfish can not be released. Heart can not tell
what is the taste, if not my kind, this goldfish may also be able to
live a few days, which may well, maybe one day died.
Then
I said to my daughter when I release goldfish, I also think there will
be one day, I went to the river to play, the river is full of red little
goldfish.
"Mom,
there was a story that says that during World War II, when a little
girl escaped, she rushed her goldfish to the river, and when she
returned home after World War II, the river was full of Little goldfish,
from the food and clothing of the little girl, to sell goldfish to make
a living.
"You have no intention of a little charity, will bring you a lot of unexpected surprises, this story is good.
"In
fact, the story to say is an open - minded attitude towards life, that
the river full of red goldfish, is the best reward for open - minded
life!
"The best reward for open - minded life?
"Yes
ah, the teacher said Jide good, is not seeking return, and open -
minded attitude to life, there must be a return, and that return, it
must be surprisingly rich!
"What is an open - minded attitude to life, and is your teacher telling you?
"No, but I think the so - called open - minded, is no matter where you are in the situation, the heart is always full of hope!
Talk to this point, I was sitting in front of the computer, lost in thought.
，发自于从容的平常心，蕴含着成熟与自信，不卑不亢，不急不躁，有利于稳步前行，不容易摔跤出事。仰视，是用来看比我们高大的人和物的眼光角度，即所谓高山仰止。经常仰视，从好处来说，让我们知道天外有天，人外有人，学有榜样，比有标杆，不会如同井底之蛙，妄自尊大；从副作用来看，仰视久了，不仅会脖子酸疼，还往往会让我们心生自卑，觉得自己很渺小，事事处处不如人，总处于压抑状态。
俯视，“一览众山小”，则是用来看比我们低的人和物的眼光角度。有些人成就不如我们，名气不如我们，社会地位不如我们，那么，当目光转向他们时，眼里就不免带有鄙视、势利也有怜悯。大多数时间里，我们常常会忽视他们，对其熟视无睹，因为，我们羡慕的眼光一直在盯着那些比我们更高的成功人士，忙着和那些巨富、名流比较高低，看得眼红心酸，比得筋疲力尽。
从自然规律来看，一般来说，青年人喜欢仰视，“少年心事当拿云”，在他们眼里，没有几个能看得上的人，只有那些声名显赫的名家巨擘才会进入他们的视野。像刘邦看见秦始皇，就敢说“大丈夫当如是”，项羽比他还牛：“彼可取而代之。”人到中年，心态平和了，锋芒收敛了，也知道世道不易了，就会逐渐把眼光放平，不疾不徐地走在路上，有条不紊地奔向自己的目标。进入老态后，饱经风霜，阅人无数，“见惯秋月春风”，已不再迷恋功成名就、灯红酒绿，再加上腰驼了，背弯了，眼花了，自然不自然地就把俯视当成了习惯。
当然，因人而异，也有的人一生都在仰视，一生都在瞄准更高目标。他可能活得很排场，很光鲜，但肯定也活得很疲惫，很仓促，只顾得一个个攻城拔寨，却来不及浏览风光，享受生活，其实他这一辈子也很冤枉。所以，当我们仰视得很累的时候，不妨低头看看，看看那些生活在社会底层的人们，他们虽然和我们是一样的人，但学历比我们低，收入比我们少，房子比我们小，工作不如我们体面，社会地位也逊于我们，永远默默无闻，在他们面前，我们常常有一种优越感，平时很有些不屑一顾，很少把眼光瞥向他们。
其实，他们的生存智慧和社会价值并不比我们低，他们的贡献和劳动并不比我们少，我们没有什么高高在上的骄傲理由。而且，常和他们接触，还会有意想不到的收获。如果一个白领在职场拼搏得身心交瘁时，在市场竞争得你死我活时，利用喘息之际，低头看看街头的补鞋匠、修车人，走街串巷的小货郎、拾荒汉，你就会觉得，你即使再退十步、百步，也比他的生活水准高，何必还要再去为那些身外之物争得不亦乐乎呢？
推而广之，一个官员正在为仕途不畅没有更上层楼而苦恼时，不妨低头看看属下百姓的日子，到他们家里坐坐，听听他们有什么难处，有什么期望；一个赚钱赚到手疼却还在为赚更多的钱而焦虑的老板，也可屈尊到手下的员工家里坐坐，看看他们都在想些什么，何苦何乐；一个为制定作战计划而绞尽脑汁的将军，不妨忙里偷闲，到士兵的大帐里转转，听听他们的想法和建议，一定会不虚此行。常低头看看，可能会让我们转变思路，也可能会使我们浮躁的心灵得到抚慰，会使我们狂热的欲望得到冷却，变成一个心理正常的人，而不是一台挣钱机器，一个职场狂人，一介钻营之徒。
常低头看看，是休息也是放松，是充电也是减压，实乃智者之举。
